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More About Judy

 

 

To the glory of God, Judy is Out Of The Box of Domestic Violence.

 

As a minister and a counselor, she is dedicated to seeing other women set free. This dedication has directed her to writing as a source of helps. In the role and function as author, her writings center around the issues regarding this tender subject. Likewise, Judy’s life experience as a university dance teacher still infiltrates the ministry today. Her expertise and passion for the arts is very evident within First Love Ministries & Dreamcenter. Judy is available to speak and minister at conferences, seminars, the local church, women’s groups and organizations. Her Spirit-led journey Out Of The Box of Domestic Violence has equipped her with an overcomer’s testimony. Through her experience Jesus Christ has anointed and empowered her with a message to heal the brokenhearted and set the captives free.

 

Judy resides in the Space Coast area of Florida with her husband John. For more information about John and Judy Brinkley as well as First Love Ministries & Dreamcenter visit their website at:

www.firstlovedreamcenter.com

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Domestic Violence: Warning Signs of Abuse PDF Print E-mail

 

1.

JEALOUSY

Excessively possessive. Resentfully suspicious and envious of any rivalry (everything and anything about you). Monitors your whereabouts. Ultimately, the abuser's jealousy can separate you from everyone and everything
you love.

 

2.

CONTROLLING

An abuser demands to exercise, maintain and sustain POWER, CONTROL and AUTHORITY over you; everything about you. Intense interrogation of your life. He sets in motion through coercion, threats, intimidation, the power to direct as well as restrain your autonomy, personal freedom and your life.

 

3.

ISOLATION

Separates you from family, friends, co-workers and even church fellowship. Restricts, alienates and prohibits association with those you consider to be supportive relationships.

 

4.

PUSH FOR QUICK INVOLVEMENT

Comes on very strong and charismatic. Pressures for an exclusive commitment
from the very beginning. Claims to have never loved this intensely before.

 

5.

CONTROL OVER THE

WAY YOU DRESS.


 

6.

BLAME

Everyone else is to blame for his feelings, his behavior; especially you. Woman is scapegoat; the one to BEAR THE BLAME for the mistakes of others (especially his), suffering and overall dysfunction.

 

7.

CRUELTY TO ANIMALS AND CHILDREN


 

8.

HIS THINKING

His mindset is centered around this premise; "You are His possession. You belong to him. You are his property."

 

9.

RIGID SEX ROLES

You are expected to serve him at all times. Obey him at all times. His mind says, "Women are inferior. Men are superior."

 

10.

UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS

Expects you to meet ALL OF HIS NEEDS whether physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, etc. ALL THE TIME. In essence, you are to be PERFECT.

 

11.

HYPERSENSITIVITY

Easily insulted. Easily hurt. The reality is he is most likely mad. Rants about injustice.

 

12.

DR. JEKYLL AND

MR. HYDE

A master of deception with a dual personality. His charming persona is a clever mask for the calculated and strategic concealment of his sinister persona.

 

13.

VERBAL ABUSE

Consistent criticism, name calling, mocking and accusatory words. Mental cruelty as a way of being with you. Degradation and humiliation of you.

 

14.

PAST BATTERING

Admits to physical aggression with other women in the past. Although, he was the "VICTIM" or they made him do it.

 

15.

THREATS OF VIOLENCE

Makes statements such as "If you leave me, I will harm you" or "If you cross me, you will regret you ever did" or "I will kill you if you leave me" or "Do as I say and I won't hurt you."

 

16.

PLAYFUL USE OF FORCE

IN SEX

Enjoys using physical force and aggression during sexual intimacy; against your will.

 

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